The Smutlancers Podcast

The Smutlancers Podcast


The Fear of Stopping

December 09, 2019

This week’s episode discusses goal setting from a different angle — the fear we sometimes feel when we decide to stop doing something. Change can be scary, and not just new changes we’ve never done before. Stopping or ending a thing we’ve done for a long time can make us fearful or unsettled, too. These are my thoughts. In this episode: * Part of goal setting needs to be deciding what you won’t do in the future. * We can have a similar response to stopping as we do to starting — anxiety, worries, fears. * Very little is permanent, and you can always come back to something again. * Ask yourself a few questions about the thing you want to stop. * Some “stops” will be abrupt and immediate, others will be gradual. * Give yourself time to know if it’s something you should continue — quarterly or semi-annual check-ins work. Links from the episode: Setting Goals You Can Achieve (podcast) The Smutlancers Community on Patreon Follow The Smutlancer on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook Follow Eroticon on Twitter and Instagram KaylaLords.com Molly’s Daily Kiss Subscribe to the show: Apple Podcasts Google Play Stitcher RSS feed