Many are baffled by the so strong feelings around the 2024 election results – let us help you get it.

Families are dividing, couples are blowing up and neighbors are being cut off.  When you are close to someone who didn’t vote with you this year, you are likley in some distress. The shock and pain for some groups after the election and the corresponding lack of understanding is a recipe for dysregulation.

We explore the complexities of political identity, emotional responses, and the impact of political discourse on all of our personal relationships in the wake of a divisive presidential election. Ann and Sue, alongside Michael Hilgers, LPC, emphasize the need for deeper conversations that transcend binary thinking and the significance of co-regulation in healing and fostering unity amidst division. They explore the challenges of navigating relationships where political views differ, emphasizing the value of patience, compassion, and open curiosity to foster understanding.

The conversation touches on the risks of lasting family divides and underscores the importance of creating safe, respectful spaces for meaningful conversations. Ultimately, it encourages empathy and small, thoughtful steps toward more compassionate communication.

“We all play a role in this democracy. We need to remember the power of every vote. I continue, too, to keep myself connected to a force that’s larger and more potent than any one election, or leader, or news story—and that’s optimism. For me, this is a form of faith, an antidote to fear.” – Michelle Obama

Looking for extra community and connection post-election? Join us for our second free, live virtual holding circle on Friday, November 22nd at 3 PM CST – Click here to learn more 
Time Stamps for Aftermath of the Election
00:00 Navigating identity

02:52 The aftermath of the 2024 Presidential election based on gender

06:09 Understanding huge emotional responses for those who care

08:56 The difficulty of empathy and connection when stakes are high

15:01 Co-regulation

17:54 The role of historical trauma in reactions to current events

20:56 Is common ground possible?

25:32 Betrayal

27:09 Listening and holding space rather than fixing it

29:31 Patience in difficult conversations

30:35 Political divides in relationships

32:00 The risk of permanent divisions

39:18 Concrete steps for compassionate communication

42:08 Addressing name-calling and intentional humiliation
About our Guest – Michael Hilgers, LPC

Michael Hilgers, LPC is a licensed Professional Counselor who maintains an online Counseling Practice specializing in work with Creatives and Entrepreneurs. After almost 25 years in Austin, Tx, he moved to the mountains of Northern New Mexico where he works with clients from around the globe.

 

 

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Events, Announcements & Resource Links for Secure Relating & the Election

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