It starts with taking responsibility. "Ultimately what defines a people pleaser is that their self-worth is attached to things external them, to results and things outside of their control." -Daniel Munro The Cheat Sheet: What is a covert contract, and d

High performance people make shit happen. "Man's greatest burden is unfulfilled potential." -Dan Pena The Cheat Sheet: Why Dan calls himself a 13th or 14th century manager and what that means. What is Dan proudest of? True or false: Dan gives away a

You are the common denominator. "We gain strength, courage and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face and we do the thing we cannot do." -Eleanor Roosevelt The Cheat Sheet: Why is everyone afraid of accountability?

Adventure is good for everyone. "The biggest risk is getting to the end of your life and looking back and thinking 'Man I could have done more.'" -Dave Cornthwaite The Cheat Sheet: What training does he do for his adventures? This kills ambition more tha

Focus on what works, not what doesn't. "Somebody busier than you is running right now." -MJ Shaar The Cheat Sheet: Why being busy is just a way of showing self-importance. What is the confirmation bias? The truth about why sleeping poorly leads to poor e

Why financial advisors are not always in your corner. "Learn to master money, and not let money master you." -Andrew Hallam The Cheat Sheet: How much would the average US stock from 20 years ago have earned you today? How $6.45 a day can get you a m

Language hacks aren't just for languages. "Vulnerability is the best way to show strength, and vulnerability and respect go hand in hand."-The Art of Charm The Cheat Sheet: How he condensed four years of MIT curriculum into 12 months. The new learning pa

Actions + goals = authentic power. "My biggest fear is to look back on a mediocre life and wonder what went wrong."-Dale Thomas Vaughn The Cheat Sheet: Why and how goal-setting can get in the way of success. What's the Camino de Santiago and why should y

Create your own influential network. "Just start something. Test something out, let it fail and let it fail often."-Jon Levy The Cheat Sheet: The statistical impact your friendships have on you. What are the two types of epidemics? The ninja strategy for

Adjust your style to connect. "We don't see people as they are, we see people as we are."-Steve Sisler The Cheat Sheet: The three reasons people listen. How much of communication is verbal, how much body language? What behavioral profile do nurses most o