Tony welcomes guests Nate and Marla Christensen to discuss the concept of self-compassion. Nate is an ALPC, and Marla is an ALPC and AMFT. They delve into the groundbreaking research of Kristen Neff, who has spent 20 years studying the benefits of self-compassion, including its effects on PTSD, anxiety, depression, and overall mental health. The episode explores the three main components of self-compassion—mindfulness, self-kindness, and common humanity—and addresses common misconceptions such as self-compassion being viewed as weakness, self-indulgence, or selfishness. They share personal insights and clinical experiences, making a compelling case for incorporating self-compassion into daily life and therapy. Nate and Marla are both currently working under Tony's license, and both currently have openings in their schedule. To reach Nate, email him at natechristensencounseling@gmail.com, and for Marla, email marlachristensencounseling@gmail.com, or you can contact them through Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com. You can view Nate and Marla's episode on LeadingSaints.org here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=0f9P-Xk5ZaE

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

02:46 Guest Introduction: Nate and Marla Christensen

02:53 Discussing Self-Compassion

03:45 Nate and Marla's Professional Background

08:16 The Importance of Self-Compassion

14:25 Common Misconceptions About Self-Compassion

17:04 Scientific Insights on Self-Compassion

25:25 Historical Context and Recent Research

27:27 Exploring Self-Compassion

28:32 Understanding Mindfulness

30:59 Practicing Self-Kindness

32:52 Embracing Common Humanity

34:58 Motivation Through Self-Compassion

35:53 Challenges in Self-Compassion

39:14 Cultural Perspectives on Compassion

41:11 Reparenting and Emotional Maturity

45:52 Final Thoughts and Reflections