There is an aspect within the mind that is always fighting to gain control. This control freak within us plays the mental game of constantly shapeshifting one's mental stance to find the one that produces the "illusion" of being in control. This game can oftentimes become disguised as a seeker's quest for "acceptance." True acceptance has zero to do with control and everything to do with allowance, and would be found in any moment when one is willing to live exactly as things are NOW for the rest of their life. Lex talks us through an easy way of identifying whether we really are in a direct experience of acceptance or if we are still caught in the control freak's mind games. www.lexferrier.com