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Latest Episodes

Managing your Boss | Episode 86 | The Big Payoff
November 30, 2017

You’re having a bad time at work and blame your boss.  She’s a nightmare. But wait. Instead of complaining about it--which doesn’t change the situation--how about learning to manage HER?  We call this “managing up” and it’s the key to...

Managing your Boss | Episode 86 | The Big Payoff
November 29, 2017

You’re having a bad time at work and blame your boss.  She’s a nightmare. But wait. Instead of complaining about it--which doesn’t change the situation--how about learning to manage HER?  We call this “managing up” and it’s the key to...

Claiming your expertise | Episode 85 | The Big Payoff
November 13, 2017

When someone asks you, “What do you do?” you go right to your job title, and possibly even say something self-deprecating as a chaser. But that’s not the way to claim your expertise, or your power in the room. Here’s a hint at what you’ll hear on this ...

Planning for that difficult conversation | Episode 83 | The Big Payoff
November 01, 2017

You are anticipating a difficult conversation, so you have the whole narrative figured out. You’ve painstakingly scripted both sides of the conversation. The bad news: it NEVER goes the way you think it will, and you’ve wasted your time and energy for ...

You’re Such a Badass | Episode 84 | The Big Payoff
October 20, 2017

You are hearing and seeing this term everywhere, right? You share your opinion at a meeting, and you’re a badass. Or maybe you pull an all nighter for the presentation…or give a talk in front of a group…or run a 5k And the next thing you know...you’re ...

Being OK with Being No. 2 | Episode 82 | The Big Payoff
September 12, 2017

There are times when your job is about helping someone else look good, get the credit or shine in the spotlight. When that’s your role, do you embrace it, or does your ego fight it? Rachel and Suzanne talk about how to make “being Number 2” a position...

Stress is Not the Boss of Me | Episode 81| The Big Payoff
August 29, 2017

With thanks to Tina Fey for introducing all of us to “sheetcaking” as an emotional release in turbulent times, we bring you this podcast episode on the topic of reducing your stress in ways that actually work. Whether it’s your boss, your clients, or...

Don’t Quite Fit In? She’s Gets You w/ Jennifer Romolini | Episode 80| The Big Payoff sode
July 17, 2017

Jennifer Romolini, chief content officer for Shondaland.com, is a self-proclaimed misfit. Even while killing it in her career she has never felt that she looked or acted like she was supposed to, and just couldn’t shake the awkwardness and anxiety that...

Charisma in 3 easy-to-learn moves! | Episode 79 | The Big Payoff
July 05, 2017

She walked into the conference room and within seconds she was smiling and chatting easily with the others. There’s an ease, a magnetism, an instant desire to be in her presence. How DOES she do that? You might want to say-- well she just has a...

Getting Sh*t Done | Episode 78 | The Big Payoff
June 22, 2017

Does this sound familiar: “I worked all day but got nothing done.” It’s the worst feeling ever. Right? Our guess is that you did everything BUT the work you needed to get done. This isn’t procrastination-- which is when you knowingly clean the house...