There have been times in our marriage when Lori has said or done something that hurt me. Early on those events were terrifying. What if I was seeing a hint of who she really was? What if she had been faking it and was... The post That’s Not Who She Is app

On Thursday Lori and I are taking the grandsons out for dinner and then we will drive through a neighbourhood that puts up a lot of Christmas lights. Were doing this so their mom and dad get a few hours without the kids. If...The post Dinner And A Light

Ive been anxious about our year-end giving for most of the month. And, of course, I use to word anxious because it sounds better than saying fearful. But it made no sense for me to feel this way. Donations are a bit slower than...The post Face Your Fear

I came across something very old (70s) that said once a mans orgasm starts it cant be stopped, but if stimulation stops while a woman is having an orgasm, her orgasm is halted. That sort of sounded right to me, but not exactly. So...The post Her Orgas

When I started The Generous Husband, I ended each day of the week with a different tagline. Thursday, Acts of Service day, ended with Shes worth it. My question to you is this: do you think your wife is worth it? Is she worth...The post Friday Flashba

Ive talked about how Lori and I have become all about our blue and green time meaning being out in nature. Since we have nature a dozen steps from our door its easy for us. Even now with multiple feet of snow on...The post Blue And Green. Or Maybe Wh

What we do and dont do is all about how we calculate the cost-benefit ratio. If we get more from doing it than it costs us, then we do it. If not, we probably dont. Of course, sometimes the benefit is we get to...The post Its All About The Cost-Bene

Every year I point to our fill-and-print coupons as a low-cost or last-minute Christmas gift idea. This year I want to suggest something better. Coupons for things you hate to do, promising it will be done in 24 hours are an option. Or do... The post Free

Loris Doing Marriage Well topic this week is about the words we speak to our spouse. Without stealing her thunder, my simple idea for today is to become far more aware of the words you use around your wife and how they affect her...The post The Power Of

Our church is going through the book of First Corinthians. Last Sunday was chapter thirteen, often called the love chapter. Chapter thirteen frequently gets taken out of context. It is commonly used at weddings. Our pastor pointed out that while none of