So Wednesday, January 11th is International Thank-You Day. It is intended to remind us to express gratitude to those who have made our lives better. Sounds to me like a day to give your wife a big thank-you. Flowers, chocolates, or a nice meal...The pos

Since August 2001 I have posted here daily. Ive missed maybe half a dozen days in that time, usually because of an Internet outage. Other bloggers have called that everything from impressive to insane. When I was also working full time doing landscape an

When I was single, I could have sexual release pretty much any time I wanted it. When I reached what I now understand to be a moderate level of sexual arousal, I resolved that promptly. Doing that made me very selfish about sex. I... The post An Erection

A few Sundays ago, I linked to When Those You Love Push Your Buttons, an outstanding post by Gary Sinclair on his Safe at Home blog. I strongly recommend you go read, no study, that post. I mention this as a hat tip. Rather... The post Friday Flashback: P

The other day I spent a good deal of time talking with a friend who needed to vent about a situation at work. Not just vent, he needed to talk through it too. But he had to vent a bit to get there. He... The post Sometimes Your Wife Isn’t The Right Person

A while back, Lori and I were watching The Feed. In one scene, a character named Gil was talking with his girlfriend and said he liked who she was. When she then asked him to change something he was doing, he said, I like...The post Liking Who We Are

On my news reader, I had a story with 40 motivational quotes for 2023. One was a picture that showed in the preview: Stop taking directions from people who never got where you are going. ~ Found on the Interweb I’ve expressed this idea... The post Get A M

Ive never been a fan of New Years resolutions. They feel forced and artificial, and they have never done much for me. Goals on the other hand can be powerful, especially if you do them well. I bring this up because the other day...The post Of Resolutio

As followers of Jesus, we are called to be different. We do things Gods way, not the way of the world. We are called to be in the world so we can help and bless it, but we are admonished not to be of...The post Marriage: Not As The World Does appeared f

Is your sex life an integral part of your marriage? Or is it something separate? When you have sex do you just flow into it or is it like looking for and then taking an off-ramp from the rest of your marriage? Society pushes... The post Sex As Part Of The