A Fundamental Key to Loving. We are a bunch of sinful, angry, ragamuffins. And God has put us all together. We live in a scary world. We live in a time where they don't like us much. How do you like people who hate you? Especially when many of those people are even in the church? Steve says don't be obedient and don't be nice (he says those things don't work). So what does he say we need?