Couples get into patterns with each other … they do a dance, so to speak. One of the most common “dances” is that of one pursuing and the other distancing. Though pretty typical, it’s also not an effective dance and doesn’t help couples to really create the best connection. Licensed social worker and addictions counselor, Frances Forgione, spells out with Dr. Karen what’s really under this pattern. Once understood, Frances further explains how a couple can learn the steps to more effectively flow into a more harmonious pattern.