Episode 429: The December Retention Crisis: Keeping Students Through the Holidays Podcast Description It's mid-November, and you can feel it coming. Families are getting busier. Attendance is starting to drop. Parents are distracted. And you know what's around the corner—the December retention crisis. Every year, it's the same story. December hits, families disappear, and then January rolls around and half of them don't come back. But it doesn't have to be that way. In this timely episode, Duane and Allie break down exactly how to keep your students engaged, motivated, and committed through the holidays—and how to set yourself up so January isn't a rebuild month. Duane and Allie cover: Why December is so dangerous for retention (and what's really happening) Early warning signs to identify at-risk families before they disappear Proactive retention strategies you can implement right now How to handle the "break" conversation when parents ask to pause Setting up January success in December (pre-selling enrollment, reconnecting with former students) Common mistakes to avoid (and what to do instead) Whether you've been in business for 30+ years like Duane and Allie (combined 60 years of martial arts experience!) or you're newer to school ownership, this episode will give you a clear action plan to finish 2025 strong and start 2026 even stronger. The work you do in November and December determines your January numbers. Don't wait—start now. Key Takeaways 1. December Is a Retention Battleground—Not a Throw-Away Month Families are overwhelmed with school concerts, holiday parties, family travel, shopping, cooking, and hosting. Kids are exhausted from end-of-semester exams, school projects, and holiday events. Parents mentally check out, thinking, "We'll get back to normal in January." The hidden danger: Families who skip 2-3 weeks in December often don't return in January. They were already on the fence—the holidays just gave them permission to quit. The mindset shift: December isn't a "throw-away month." The work you do in November and December determines your January numbers. 2. People Are Creatures of Habit—Don't Let Them Break the Training Habit Allie's "drink analogy": When the refrigerator at his school is full, people constantly buy drinks. The minute it goes empty for a few days, people go to 7-Eleven instead and form a new habit. When he refills the fridge, drink sales drop to zero—he has to ramp them back up again. The lesson: The longer you're closed (or the longer students skip class), the harder it is to get them back into the habit of training. 3. Identify At-Risk Families Early—Don't Wait Until January Red flags to watch for: Attendance drops in November (coming 1x/week instead of 2-3x) Parents stop engaging (no eye contact, quick drop-offs, don't respond to texts) Students seem disengaged (low energy, not participating, sitting out) Families mention "busy schedules" repeatedly They ask about "pausing" or "taking a break" Billing issues (failed payments, late payments, asking about payment plans) Action step: This week, make a list of your at-risk families. Don't wait until they're gone. 4. Overcommunicate in November—Set Expectations for December Send a "Holiday Schedule & Expectations" email or letter in mid-November. Set the expectation: "We know the holidays are busy, but staying consistent is key to your child's progress." Remind families: "Students who train through December start January ahead of the game." Duane's multi-channel approach: Create a video about the holiday schedule and expectations. Post it on YouTube, Facebook, your parent group, send a push notification through the app with the link, and send an email. Get that information out so everybody knows. 5. Create December Incentives to Drive Attendance Perfect Attendance Challenge: Students who attend all December classes (or 80%+ of classes) get a prize—patch, certificate, free private lesson, custom trophy, or their name on the "Wall of Warriors." Allie's mid-month check-ins: "Duane, it's eight classes for the month. You've only made three, but over the next two weeks, if you make five more classes, you're going to get that perfect attendance award." Other incentives: Holiday belt or stripe promotion (give students a goal to work toward in December) December Warrior Club (recognize students who don't miss a class) Chart on the wall showing who has perfect attendance 6. Don't Close for Two Weeks Without Staying Connected The longer you're closed, the harder it is to get families back in the habit. If you do close (like Duane does for two weeks), make sure you stay connected with virtual events, challenges, and personal outreach. Alternatives to closing: Offer shorter classes (30 minutes instead of 45-60) Add family classes (parents can train with kids) Offer make-up class flexibility (extra Saturday classes, open mat times) Duane's philosophy: "The moment you close for two weeks, you're telling families it's okay to take a break. And once they take a break, it's hard to get them back." 7. Personal Outreach Saves Students—Call At-Risk Families Personally Don't send a mass message. Call or text personally: "Hey Mrs. Smith, I noticed Emma missed class this week. Just checking in—is everything okay? We miss her!" Offer solutions: "I know December is crazy. Would a different class time work better?" Allie's story: A family ghosted him in December. He called the mom. She said, "Oh, we were just so busy, we figured we'd start back in January." He said, "I totally get it. How about Emma just comes once a week in December? That way she stays sharp." She said yes. They never quit. Duane's tip for Spark users: Switch up the frequency in your MIA system for November/December. If they miss just one class (instead of waiting 8 days), follow up immediately. 8. Host December Events to Build Community and Reinforce Commitment Event ideas: Holiday party (potluck with food drive—cans of non-perishable food as admission) Board breaking event (Duane does this every year on the last day before closing) Year-end belt testing ceremony Virtual karate tournament (during the break) Virtual scavenger hunt (Duane's students love this—60 seconds to find each item, then message through the app how many they found) Pizza night (Allie sent pizza kits to every student's house during COVID—families made pizzas together and sent photos) Why it works: Creates a sense of community, gives families a reason to show up, and reinforces commitment. Bonus tip: Take pictures of your food drive donations and post them on social media to showcase your school's community involvement. 9. Handle the "Break" Conversation Strategically—Don't Just Say "Okay, See You in January" The wrong response: "Okay, no problem. See you in January!" (They won't come back.) The right response: Acknowledge their concern: "I totally understand—December is crazy." Ask questions: "What's going on? Is it the schedule, or is something else happening?" Offer alternatives: "What if we just dropped to once a week for December? That way [child's name] stays sharp and doesn't lose momentum." Reinforce the value: "The kids who train through December always come back stronger in January. The ones who take a break? It's really hard to get them back on track." Allie's approach: "I don't do credits for tuition anymore. You can make those classes up. You missed 12 classes? Come an extra two times a week for the next seven months. But you're in an agreement, and we can't pause just because you're not driving the car—you still pay the loan." When to let them go: If they're truly unhappy or it's a financial hardship, let them pause with dignity. Offer a "comeback plan" for January. 10. Pre-Sell January Enrollment in December Target your current families first: Siblings who aren't training yet (offer half-off for January, free uniform and belt to put under the tree) Extended family or friends (gift certificates for 2-month memberships at a discounted rate) Allie's approach: "Don't ask grandparents to buy another ugly sweater or a new game—have them pay a month of tuition at the school. If you need weapons for the holidays, have relatives buy those as gifts instead of tchotchkes." Create urgency: Limited-time offer, early-bird discounts, lock in 2025 pricing before rates go up in January. 11. Reconnect with Former Students Before January Send a "We Miss You" email or text to families who quit in the past 6-12 months. Offer a "Fresh Start" package: Free uniform First month free Roll back to their old pricing for the first year Allie's results: "Last year, I sent a 'We Miss You' text to former students. Many of them had kids now and brought their children to train, even if they didn't finish their black belt themselves." Key insight: Old students who had a positive experience will bring their kids to you, even if they didn't continue training themselves. 12. Launch Your January Marketing in December Email your list at least 2x per week (Duane emails every day—2-3 days of offers, other days are educational content). Post on social media about New Year's resolution offers, "New Year, New You" campaigns, and January enrollment specials. Promote referrals: "Bring a friend in January and get a free month." Create a referral campaign with incentives (5 referrals = train for free). Allie's Referral of a Lifetime system: Make top referrers "ambassadors" for your school—give them custom business cards and passes with their name on it. Get 10 people like that pushing your school, and it's like having 10 marketing people working for you. 13. Plan a January Kickoff Event "New Year, New Belt" promotion