Several listeners asked why a spouse only remembers the negative, or only dwells on the negative. Why don't they remember the good times or see the good things? - Over the years, I have noticed this

How do you know if it is too late to save your marriage?? - That happens to be one of the most common questions I get from people... sometimes even at the beginning of a coaching sessions. But also b

My approach is the 3C approach to saving your marriage. The 3C's are C-onnect, C-hange, and C-reate. Connect with your spouse. Change yourself. Create a new path. - The first two may be more obvio

It is such a common demand from a spouse during a marital crisis: I need space! You just need to give me space! - Yet here I am, telling you to connect with your spouse, to rebuild the broken conn

In my Save The Marriage System Quick-Start Guide, I show the 8 distinct stages of a marriage crisis. But those are the stages of the crisis. There are also stages to your awareness of the crisis. - T

Most people dont come right out and say it, but they have a sneaking suspicion that they are the victim in their marital situation. They believe they have been done wrong more wrong than they have

Let me be the first to say, saving your marriage can be hard on you emotionally! - Well, I don't really need to tell you, do I? YOU are living it! - One of the tough things, if you are going it alone

For many couples in a troubled marriage, their first stop is marital therapy. In fact, for many, it is almost an instinctive reaction. Marriage problem? Head for therapy. - How do I know? - Because

Surely you can convince your spouse to work on your marriage right? Yes, your marriage is in crisis. But if you say the right thing or say it in the right way or convince, beg, cajole, argue, and

On a regular basis (meaning, several times each week), I have a discussion with a client that ends in the client saying, "I can't...." Yes, they finish the sentence in many ways. But the start of th