Have you found yourself in the middle of an argument, toe-to-toe with your spouse, with that little part of your brain saying, "why am I even arguing over this? It doesn't matter"?I ask, because I have had that experience MANY times in my life, both wi

What do you do when your spouse has shifted back toward you some but is still distant? More distant than you would like?Do you have to just accept it, accept the lack of intimacy and connection?Is that the relationship you are stuck with? Some con

I often watch people move toward one of two possibilities when a marriage is in trouble: Getting Better or Getting Bitter. One letter difference, but what a difference in destination. - One leads a

I know. You want to convince your spouse to see things your way. So, you set out to "get" your spouse to agree with you. - ...And you have now begun walking down a very dangerous path. - (I bet you d

Connection is the lifeblood of marriage. In fact, we are wired for deep connection. And while the connection works best within the marriage relationship, it is not singular. - Many couples find conn

How hard is it to save my marriage? the email started. The writer wanted my opinion on whether my System would work. There was a problem, though. The problem was I had no details about her marita

Can you save your marriage?? - That is, to be honest, probably the biggest "speed bump" for someone who wants to save their marriage. - They wonder if it is even possible to save their marriage. And

Your spouse thinks its hopeless. You may even be wondering that, too. But is it? Is it hopeless? - Or is the problem that your spouse is hopeless not the situation? - Lets be honest: if you gi

Are your efforts to save your marriage getting stalled? Maybe we should take a look at your plan. - You do have a plan, don't you? - Let's talk about 5 reasons your plan (or lack of plan) may be the

Every marriage crisis starts as a crisis of an individual. As it expands into the marriage, the question is whether you, the spouse, will get pulled under by the crisis. - Have you ever tried to save