Are your efforts to save your marriage getting stalled?  Maybe we should take a look at your plan. You do have a plan, don’t you? Let’s talk about 5 reasons your plan (or lack of plan) may be the trouble — and what we can do to make a switch.

There is a trap waiting. It springs on you, sometimes even before you get started with saving your marriage. That same trap is waiting for you at every point of the process. You can easily get stuck in it. What’s the trap?

Boundaries may be a new concept for you.  Or you may already be working on setting boundaries for you and your marriage (I discuss it at length in my Save The Marriage System). I believe that boundaries are foundational to having a thriving life.

Here we are, right at Thanksgiving Day in the United States.  The day we are supposed to be filled with gratitude, feeling thankful for those around us. Which may feel like a tall order if your marriage is in the middle of a crisis (or if you are in an...

Is communication an issue between you and your spouse?  Do you find loving and effective communication lacking from your relationship? In this week’s free audio podcast training, we discuss 5 roadblocks to loving and effective communication.

Fear.  It comes so easily.  In fact, pretty much automatically. Love.  Ahh.  A much better place for a relationship. Reactivity, fear.  Responsiveness, love.  Where do you find yourself? In this week’s free podcast audio training,

How did it happen?  Your marriage, how did it get into trouble?  Probably not overnight.  Sure, you can point to a crisis — a fight, an “I’m not happy” talk, an affair discovered, divorce papers served.  But that crisis didn’t just pop up.

Many marriages are ruined by 2 people, each wanting to put their fair share into it.  “You put in your half, and I put in my half,” seems to be the thought.  Sounds good.  Fair.  Equal. And destined for disaster. It makes sense, doesn’t it,

 First line of an email last week:”I knew we were disconnected, but how did this happen?” The level of connection in any marriage is likely to wax and wane.  You will feel closer and more distant to your spouse to varying degrees over the lifetime of y...

Just to be clear, I am ALL FOR forgiveness.  I have talked about on the Save The Marriage Podcast and on my Thriveology Podcast. And in a marriage, there are ample opportunities to practice forgiving.  “Every-day forgiving” and big-time forgiving.