Like many resolutions, ones about love can often be unrealistic and may set you up to be disappointed.Have you made your love life the focus of your 2017 resolutions? Like many resolutions, ones about love can often be unrealistic and may set you up to be disappointed. Whether you want to find the love of your life or spice up your current relationship, it’s important to set realistic goals that will set you up for success. Dr. Holly Parker is a psychologist and author who also teaches the Harvard University Course, "The Psychology of Close Relationships."  Dr. Parker discusses why setting relationship goals is vital and how you can make sure you’re setting realistic goals that will fulfill and enrich your relationships.