The relationships you see in your early life affect every single aspect of who you are today.The relationships you see in your early life affect every single aspect of who you are today. Maybe you grew up in a home where your parents fought over money or had trouble staying faithful to each other. Or, maybe your parents equated discipline with love. These early interactions have an impact on every one of your current relationships, and it’s important to understand your history if you want to truly thrive in your present. Vienna Pharaon is a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in helping her clients understand their personal narratives. Vienna explains why the way you tell the story of your life influences everything you do.