Divorce is rarely easy, but what if there were alternatives to the adversarial process of litigation that could lead to more peaceful resolutions? 

In this episode of the Life Unlimited podcast, host Larry Heller, CFP®, CDFA® is joined by Andrea Vacca, Founder of Vacca Family Law Group, to define and explore two powerful divorce alternatives: mediation and collaborative law.

From choosing the right attorney to the importance of strong communication skills, Andrea provides tips and resources for transitioning between mediation and collaborative law, ensuring you have the support you need every step of the way. If you’re facing a divorce or simply curious about your options, this conversation could be the key to finding a less stressful, cost effective, and more collaborative path forward.

Key Points Covered:

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• The definitions and differences between Mediation and Collaborative Law and how these processes address both the emotional and practical needs of both people
  
• How these methods give couples more control over their own divorce process, often leading to clearer agreements and fewer post-divorce regrets
  
• The positive mindset these methods reinforce with their focus on problem-solving and mutual agreement
  
• Practical tips such as choosing the right attorney and emphasizing clear communication between spouses
  
• The benefits of having a team working on your case versus a solo attorney
  
• And much more!
  

Resources:

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• A Better Divorce Podcast
  
• Free eBook: Divorce Without Court
  

Connect with Andrea Vacca:

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• LinkedIn: Andrea Vacca
  
• Website: Vacca Family Law Group
  

Connect with Larry Heller: 

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• (631) 248-3600
  
• Schedule a 20-Minute Call
  
• Heller Wealth Management
  
• LinkedIn: Larry Heller, CFP®, CDFA®, CPA
  
• YouTube: Life Unlimited with Larry Heller, CFP®
  

About Our Guest:

Andrea Vacca graduated from SUNY College at Buffalo with a B.A. in Journalism and received her J.D. from Albany Law School of Union University. Andrea was admitted to the New York State Bar in 1993 and to the Federal Bar, N.D.N.Y. in 1994. She earned a Certificate in Positive Psychology in 2013.

Whether you are ending a relationship or trying to prevent potential problems in your current relationship, Andrea wants to help you reach your goals with minimal conflict. Andrea gets to know her clients, their concerns, and their goals for their future so that she can assist them by crafting solutions to meet specific needs before, during, or at the end of a marriage.

As an attorney in the collaborative process, Andrea is a strong advocate for her clients without being adversarial, and without inflaming the strong emotions that can arise during divorce. When serving as a mediator, she helps both parties understand each other’s concerns, bridge their differences, and arrive at an agreement that works for both.