All Things Marriage with Dr. Chavonne

All Things Marriage with Dr. Chavonne


Episode 274: When It's Not a Match

May 27, 2025

What if the friction in your relationship isn't just about unmet expectations, but a deeper misalignment in values and life goals? In this episode, we delve into the challenging yet liberating concept of recognizing when you and your partner might not be the right fit for each other.


We'll explore:


  • Identifying Core Misalignments: Understanding when differing values, unmet needs, and divergent life paths signal a fundamental incompatibility.


  • The Importance of Self-Work: Ensuring you've done the inner work to distinguish between personal triggers and genuine mismatches.


  • Navigating the Realization: How to approach this awareness with compassion, reducing judgment and the urge to change your partner.


  • Redefining the Relationship: Embracing the possibility of transforming the relationship dynamic, whether that means adjusting expectations or parting ways amicably.


This conversation isn't about giving up; it's about honoring your truth and creating space for both partners to thrive—together or apart.


Tune in to discover how acknowledging a mismatch can be a courageous step toward personal growth and authentic connection.


Also mentioned in this episode:

It’s normal to have doubts—especially when love is there, but the differences feel hard to bridge. I invite you to book a complimentary consultation call with me to explore how my private coaching program can help.

This is your chance to explore those lingering “What ifs” with clarity and compassion. You don’t have to figure it all out alone. Let’s talk: https://drchavonne.com/work-with-me/