Love Marriage Again with Dr. Chavonne

Love Marriage Again with Dr. Chavonne

Episode 183: What's Really Going On

September 19, 2023

Underneath every argument is a core issue that hasn't been addressed. The sooner you are able to identify what that is, the sooner you can get to the heart of the matter and spend less time debating the details of a situation.

In this podcast episode I share with you the 6 fundamental questions each of you is asking when you are in conflict. Your emotional needs are showing up as uncertainty in answering these questions. As a result, you push, pull, and try to control the situation to get your needs met and these core questions answered.

Understanding these 6 questions will help you to stop repeating the same patterns that keep you stuck, and help you to move forward.

Tune in now to uncover which one is driving your conflict so you can get the resolution you are truly looking for.

Also mentioned in this episode are several ways you can work with me to improve your communication and address the issues that keep you in conflict and disconnected as a couple. Visit to learn more about my private coaching options and my group program, The Marriage UpGrade.