Welcome back to The Nichole Banks Podcast—your go-to corner of the internet where divorced women rise, reignite their confidence, and dare to begin again.

This one? Oof, you’re going to want to download it, save it, favorite it, maybe even tattoo it on your emotional emergency kit (kidding… kind of). Because in today’s episode, we’re tackling the moments when self-doubt shows up wearing your old hoodie, camped out on your couch whispering things like:

• “Shouldn’t I be over this by now?”
• “Am I too broken or too complicated to start again?”
• “What if I’m the problem?”

Spoiler alert: Nope. Nope. And again, nope.

Nichole gets real about:

• Why healing isn’t linear (and how crying into your pillow over that song is actually progress)
• The three biggest lies self-doubt tells (and how to shut them down with truth bombs and a touch of sass)
• What it really means to choose yourself, even when you’re exhausted, scared, and wondering WTF comes next
• The power of community, courage, and calling your shot with two simple words: Watch me.

You’ll laugh, maybe cry a little, and definitely feel seen, heard, and held—because this isn’t just an episode, it’s your spiritual pep talk.