The Punishment Experiment. This episode captures a Sunday afternoon living room conversation. This week AlphaDomme and I stumbled into an interesting (and at times emotionally challenging) discussion about the nature of punishment in a FLR. On Sunday we sat down and reflected on everything we had gone over and decided. We thought we would give listeners a window on that conversation. The take home message from this discussion, we feel, is that the relationship must always take precedence over kink.