Description:
Agitation and conflict can be part of marriages, but when it becomes persistent or exaggerated it creates an atmosphere of abuse that can lead to nothing good.  Too commonly partners can remain in a cycle of abuse and great damage is done to the relationship.  This episode addresses the serious nature of abuse and identifies ways to respond if it is ongoing.
Something to Think about:
 

It is never right or good to make excuses for abusive behavior.

Abusers have a multitude of psychological problems that need to be addressed in an accountable atmosphere.

As it becomes clear that abuse will be ongoing, staying in the relationship makes less and less sense.

Let’s Talk Question:
What rationalizations have you heard from people who try to minimize the seriousness of abuse?