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Calm Firmnes

July 03, 2015

Many people can communicate firmly, but with a force that is rude and combative.  Others can be calm, but with a manner that invites invalidation.  Would you believe that it is possible to blend your firm convictions with a calm disposition?  If you want to manage personal boundaries well, you can choose to stand strongly for your needs without also being argumentative and imposing.  It requires self-restraint, but a calmly firm person can truly become a person of influence.
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One of the most important aspects to positive change is communication and questions are the best way to gain deeper insights and develop more innovative solutions. So each week, I ask a question.
“Why do some people not recognize that harshness is an unsuccessful way to state firm convictions?”
Something to Think about
Forceful communication usually ensures that a valid message will not be well received.
Simply put, people like to be addressed in a respectful manner.
When you are attempting to sway someone to your perspective, less is more.
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