A submissive who was once the Dominant in their power exchange wants to add their Dom energy back to the dynamic but isnt sure how to talk to their partner about it. Heres the...The post Q&A: How Do I Tell My Partner I Want to Switch? appeared first on

External (extrinsic) motivation is about doing something because of outside expectations your partner set a task, you were asked to do something, etc. It might be something you know needs to be done,...The post Needing External Motivation in Power Exch

Weve experienced task creep the act of taking on tasks/routines that werent specifically negotiated. Thankfully for us, we figured it out quickly and worked it out in a quick conversation. But like job...The post Task Creep in Power Exchange appear

We dont know how weve made it to 400 full-length episodes, either, but here we are! We didnt get a lot of questions for this one, so we just sort of chatted until we...The post Celebrating 400 Episodes with Kinky Q&A appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Were one week away from our 400th episode, so were starting the celebration early with a BDSM Reddit response episode! In this episode: Ask your questions for our Monday episodes. Were celebrating 10,000 subscribers...The post BDSM Reddit Response app

Most kinksters arent communicating too much, but some of us (like Kayla) could be, so lets talk about it. In this episode: We need your questions for our Monday episodes. The most common issue...The post Over Communication in Power Exchange appeared fi

A submissive has a recurring issue about aftercare with their Dominant partner and wants to know: are they the problem or is it me? Heres the question: Ive been dating a dom for about...The post Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I? appeared first on Lov

We joke about Kaylas control issues, but theyre definitely a thing we both have to navigate in our power exchange. In this episode: We joke about Kaylas control issues all the time. The stereotype...The post Submission With Control Issues appeared fi

This week, a submissive is ready to get back to their previous kink life but their partner might not be as ready. Heres the question: I have a question with no easy answer. I...The post Q&A: How Do We Get Our Kink Life Back After Having a Baby? appeared

Hair pulling inspired this weeks episode because it was a grounding and/or centering moment in kink. So lets talk about it. In this episode: Friday night live stream on May 17 starting at...The post What Grounds or Centers You in Kink? appeared first