A kinkster whos been dealing with burnout, depression, and other personal stuff wonders how and when to bring up their mental health to a new partner. Heres the question: My question is as...The post Q&A: How Do I Talk About My Mental Health? appeare

Assertive gets conflated with bratting, demanding, and/or unsubmissive-like behavior. And we fundamentally disagree, so lets talk about it. In this episode: All of our Etsy shops are on sale thru the rest of the...The post Assertive Submissives appeared

A newish kinkster live in an area with a local kink community theyre not comfortable being part of and driving to another area isnt an option. Heres the question: What do I do when...The post Q&A: How Do I Handle Having a Bad Local Community? appeared

We didnt know where this would go before we started other than saying, Yes, Doms need to communicate effectively, too. (Obviously.) JB shares his experiences as a Dom who has struggled to communicate in...The post Dominants and Communication appeared

In this weeks episode, a submissive wants to bring D/s out of the bedroom, but their Dom doesnt seem motivated to try. Heres the question: My husband (33m) and I (34f) have been together...The post Q&A: How Can I Motivate My Dom to Bring D/s Out of th

Youve probably heard of new relationship energy (NRE) but were more interested in the idea of old relationship energy. So lets talk about it. In this episode Were celebrating the Kinkerys 4th anniversary with...The post Old Relationship Energy in Po

Were back and coming in hot with a BDSM Reddit response/reaction episode! In this episode: This weeks episode is sponsored by Flure, a welcome, inclusive, and kink-friendly dating app. Theres no episode next Monday....The post BDSM Reddit Response app

In this weeks episode, a kinky couple has gone through a few shifts in their relationship and now things are a little off. Can they go back to normal? Heres the question: My sub...The post Q&A: Can We Go Back to Normal? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we talk about the thing that anyone whos ever had a D/s relationship knowslife will definitely interfere with your power exchange. In this episode, we talk about some of the most common...The post When Life Interferes with Your Power Exchang

A submissive isnt having a good time during scenes with their nervous Domme and is getting more and more frustrated. Heres the question: Hello! So Im in a relationship with a woman who...The post Q&A: How Do I Enjoy Scenes with a Nervous Domme? appe