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Latest Episodes

On Being a Fixer in a D/s Relationship
September 18, 2020

We’ve mentioned in multiple episodes some of the problems and challenges that happen in any relationship when you’re a “fixer” (as we are). This week, let’s talk about it in more detail! In this...

Reactive, Proactive, and Anticipatory Service
September 11, 2020

There are multiple ways of talking about submission, power exchange, and service (non-sexual and sexual). In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a workbook by Luna Carruthers entitled Submissive Reflection: A Journey of...

Letting Hope and Joy Shine In When You Can
September 04, 2020

This week’s episode was inspired after we went on multiple rants about how much 2020 sucked, and someone said, “Uh, didn’t you buy a house this year? It can’t all suck.” And that’s when...

A Chaotic Ramble: Celebrating 5 Years of Podcasts
August 28, 2020

This week’s episode is a hot mess, y’all. We turned on the microphones even though we had no clue what we wanted to talk about — which we’ve maybe done once or twice in...

Assumptions About BDSM, D/s, and Kink
August 21, 2020

We seem to be on a roll turning old YouTube trends into podcast episodes. Yes, it’s a little strange, but it’s also a lot of fun! This week, we asked our Instagram followers to...

Feeling Helpless When You Can’t Help Your Partner
August 07, 2020

Part of being in a D/s relationship means working as a team, helping each other build something together. But sometimes, as individuals, we go through tough times and there’s no easy “fix” for it....

Ranking Our Kinks
July 31, 2020

John Brownstone was feeling under the weather late last week and into this week, so we took the week off from recording a podcast/live streaming. Instead of missing the week, we decided to share...

Teasing and Being Teased in D/s Relationships
July 24, 2020

If you see “tease” and immediately think “kinky fuckery fun,” you’re not alone. And yes, we talk about that, but we also talk about teasing as part of the relationship and how (some) kinksters...

Feeling Overwhelmed in Your D/s Relationship
July 17, 2020

One of the universal experiences is feeling overwhelmed. We all may handle it differently, but at some point, the feeling hits. This week, we talk about it in three common areas of D/s relationships...

Answering Listener Questions
July 10, 2020

Right after we decided to make this week a question and answer episode, we thought of other ideas (funny how that works!). We received more questions than we wanted to answer in a single...