Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM


Latest Episodes

Disappointment in D/s Relationships
September 20, 2019

We’re baaaaa-aaaaaack! And so happy to be recording again! This week, we talked about dealing with disappointing your partner in a D/s relationship — from a submissive AND a Dominant perspective. In this episode:...

How Stress Impacts D/s Relationships
August 30, 2019

No one is shocked that stress impacts our D/s relationships. Of course it happens, but that doesn’t mean we always handle it well — or that our D/s relationship won’t bend under the strain....

The Power of Laughter and Humor in D/s Relationships
August 23, 2019

Listen to one podcast episode (or watch a video), and you know that John Brownstone and I laugh a LOT. Part of it has to do with being happy, but part of it is...

Forgiveness in D/s Relationships
August 16, 2019

Forgiveness is a big topic and a sticky one. There are no right answers about when or if you should forgive a partner or whether a relationship can be saved. But one thing is...

Having Your Needs Met in Your D/s Relationship
August 09, 2019

Everyone has needs and everyone in a relationship has needs. Only you can decide which of those needs is most important, but in D/s if anyone tries to convince you your needs are unimportant,...

Taking Care of Each Other When You’re Apart
August 02, 2019

(Some) Dominants want to protect their partner, and (some) submissives want to take care of their partner. But when you have to be apart — either temporarily or as part of a long distance...

Consenting to Activities You Don’t Love But Your Partner Does
July 26, 2019

This is kind of a weird one. It can be an overwhelmingly fun experience and an opportunity for growth when you do something your partner enjoys that you wouldn’t necessarily choose for yourself. On...

Listener Questions: 24/7 D/s, Being a Good Dom, and More!
July 19, 2019

This week, we did something a little different. We’ve been overwhelmed (in a good way) with a lot of listener questions, and there just isn’t enough time in the day to answer everyone. So...

Helping People Feel Welcome in the Kinky Community
July 12, 2019

We love being members of a kinky community — online and in-person. And we also appreciate the hard work that goes into hosting events and facilitating meet-ups. But after a few events where we...

When Your D/s is Out of Sync
July 05, 2019

Earlier this week, we were out of sync — we weren’t in tune with each other in terms of kink. John Brownstone went too hard, too fast, and I didn’t speak up when I...