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Q&A: Is Punishment a Necessary Part of Power Exchange?
Youll hear the audio skip during the intro it was a problem we discovered after we recorded. The rest of the episode should be fine. Theyve renegotiated their power exchange and removed punishment,...The post Q&A: Is Punishment a Necessary Part of Po
Feelings of Comfort and Familiarity
A lot of feelings come up when youre getting back to the D/s relationship you want or reconfiguring it to work for your life now. For us, its been feelings of comfort (Kayla) and...The post Feelings of Comfort and Familiarity appeared first on Loving B
Q&A: How Do I Feel More Confident in Our Dynamic After Trauma?
Content warning: mentions (but no descriptions) of sexual abuse and trauma in a past D/s relationship A submissive left an abusive power exchange relationship and has found a Dominant partner that makes them happy,...The post Q&A: How Do I Feel More Conf
Silly Conflicts in Our Power Exchange
We needed something lighthearted this week, so were taking a look at some of the silly little arguments we get into. In this episode: Our 2025 Patreon Membership Drive is still going on! Argument...The post Silly Conflicts in Our Power Exchange appear
Q&A: How Do I Get Out of My Head During Sex?
This week, a submissive cant stop worrying about her partners previous sexual experience but her Dominant also worries hes not giving her big enough orgasms. Heres the question: My boyfriend and I have been...The post Q&A: How Do I Get Out of My Head
BDSM Reddit Response
This week, we could use a cathartic rant or two, so were responding to the BDSM side of Reddit! In this episode: Join our kinky community during the 2025 Patreon Membership Drive and get...The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Q&A: How Do I Support a Partner Who Doesn’t Take Criticism Well?
A submissive agreed to their partner No on agreed upon topics, but their partner reacts in a way thats causing resentment. The submissive knows they need to talk but also knows their partner doesnt...The post Q&A: How Do I Support a Partner Who Doesn
Obedience in Power Exchange
Obedience is a necessary part of submission, but its not experienced the same by all submissives or their Dominant partners. In this episode: Patreon Membership Drive is still going on! Definition of obedience:...The post Obedience in Power Exchange a
Q&A: How Do We Maintain Our D/s Dynamic?
A Dominant wants to support their submissive but they dont know how to do that and maintain their D/s dynamic. Heres the question: My wife has voiced interest in kink play. She is submissive...The post Q&A: How Do We Maintain Our D/s Dynamic? appeared
Reconnecting With Our Kinky Identities
This week, were talking about the early days of reconnecting with our kinky selves what its been like so far, how we got here, and more. In this episode: Join us this Friday,...The post Reconnecting With Our Kinky Identities appeared first on Loving