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Love Maps and Power Exchange
October 31, 2025

The idea of love maps comes from the Gottman Institute in their studies on relationships, specifically marriage. We wondered if it could be applied to power exchange, too. In this episode: Join us through...The post Love Maps and Power Exchange appeared

Power Exchange vs Domestic Discipline vs Trad Wives
October 24, 2025

This weeks episode is from a question a kinkster sent to us. They wanted to know our take on power exchange, domestic discipline, and trad wives. In this episode: Its the 5th Anniversary sale...The post Power Exchange vs Domestic Discipline vs Trad Wiv

Q&A: Should I Change Our Dynamic Even Though I’m Happy With What We Have?
October 20, 2025

This kinkster loves what they have with their boyfriend, but theyve also discovered new desires that feel opposed to who they think they are. Heres the question: Im a poly woman with two long-term...The post Q&A: Should I Change Our Dynamic Even Thoug

Dealing with Shame in Kink
October 17, 2025

In this weeks episode, I (Kayla) share a moment in kink where I realized I felt shame which was a shock. Which brought me back to this conversation the last time we...The post Dealing with Shame in Kink appeared first on Loving BDSM.

10 Relationship Questions that Show You Really Know Your Partner
October 10, 2025

This week, were answering relationship questions from Therapy Jeff (again!) because we needed a chill, low-key episode, lol. In this episode: Check out the new version of the Kinkery! This weeks trans-affirming resource is...The post 10 Relationship Qu

Kinky Q&A
October 03, 2025

This week, were answering questions you asked us over on IG at that handle Kayla hates. In this episode: Our Wednesday livestream will be at 3pm ET starting next week. This weeks trans-affirming care...The post Kinky Q&A appeared first on Loving BDSM.

BDSM Reddit Response
September 26, 2025

The world is on fire, so lets take a break with a BDSM Reddit episode! In this episode: Were sharing trans-affirming resources each week because we cant be the only ones who need this...The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.

What’s Changed in our D/s | Updates from Old Episodes
September 19, 2025

We had technical issues last week which kept us from recording this episode, but were back! (Technically with new technical problems but those dont impact the podcast, lol.) This week, were giving updates from...The post Whats Changed in our D/s | Up

Is Kink Being Normalized or Is It Just Going Viral?
September 05, 2025

This week, we look at some of the most recent viral trends that borrow from kink and ask, Is kink becoming mainstream? In this episode: Kinkery is having a Labor Day sale! Use code...The post Is Kink Being Normalized or Is It Just Going Viral? appeared

Chaotically Answering Kink Questions from Our Inbox
August 29, 2025

After multiple weeks locked out of our own email inbox, were finally back in and celebrating by answering the questions that were waiting for us just like we would for our Monday Q&A episodes...The post Chaotically Answering Kink Questions from Our Inbo