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Bullshitting Myself and Other Excuses – LOP011
Do you ever catch yourself in your own bullshit, making excuses for why you can’t do something, or why you don’t want to do something? What are the things you’re lying to yourself about that are holding you back from something that would make you ha...
Ask Better Questions To Get What You Need – LOP010
This episode was inspired by a recent post on my publication, Th-Ink Queerly about one person’s coming out process, and specifically her fears. I found it interesting because her article became a long list of fears that could keep her forever trapped i...
Questions We Should Be Asking About the Fatal Shooting in Toronto Greektown – LOP009
A special episode of The Living OUT Podcast This past Sunday night on July 22 in Toronto, Faisal Hussain, a 29-year-old resident went on a shooting rampage at a number of Danforth Avenue restaurants. A 10-year-old girl and and and 18-year-old woman ...
How Gay Shame Limits Self-Worth and Personal Growth – LOP008
Something I learned about myself some time ago, was how gay shame was holding me back and limiting my success. I was afraid of other people’s opinions of me. For many gay men it’s challenging to feel good enough, to feel like we belong,
How Do We Effectively Respond To So Much Injustice? LOP007
Responding to the Perpetrators who cause pain and injustice On a daily basis – if you read headline news – there appears to be so much pain and anguish in the world. Often our intrinsic, immediate response to those who make us feel this way is to l...
Good Intentions Versus The Haters – LOP006
If you do any kind of work in the public eye, whether you write, podcast, record videos, and so on, you need to be ready for the haters. And by the way, this includes posting to your personal Twitter or Facebook pages!
How Can We Be Exceptional Leaders? LOP005
Setting a standard of leadership starts with self-awareness One of the many test of leadership is seen when the leader must make difficult decisions that affect other people. True leadership is borne when others look to you for guidance.
Pride: Party, Protest, Or Both? – LOP004
If pride remains a protest, where does that leave us? Pride will always be political so long as it continues to exist. Pride, as a celebration – because it is celebrated – is a priori political because of its origins.
Are You A Top Or A Bottom? – LOP003
Let's talk about sex! How does a sexual position make you feel and what does that say about you? Are you versatile, or do you only like it one way? What was the impact of your first sexual experience on how you perceive pleasure and the developme...
What Do You Want? – LOP002
It seems such a simple question: What do you want? But do you know? This not about wanting things like a car, furniture, or making more money. Instead this question is about something much deeper. It's about connecting with your core values and what...