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Latest Episodes

The 10 Commandments of the Heteronormative Patriarchy – LOP081
May 02, 2019

Behold, these are the 10 Commandments of the Heteronormative Patriarchy for gay men who want to blend in, fit in, act like everyone else, and be respectable! Thou shalt judge other gays.Thou shalt hold your voice silent when others make homophobic c...

Vulnerability: How Gay Men Teach the Cleansing of Shame – LOP080
April 29, 2019

Brene Brown is considered an expert in her research on vulnerability and shame. What she teaches in her program, The Power of Vulnerability provides a powerful foundation to how we, as gay men and LGBTQ people,

Are You “Special”? Queer, Disabled, and Sex Workers – LOP079
April 25, 2019

Why be normal when you can be different? How do you exist in the gay world that prioritizes the “normate gay” (white, cis-male, physically fit) when you are disabled? One way is to lead with humour. This is exactly what Ryan O’Connell does with his ...

The Truth About Gay Men: Shaun Proulx Show Interview – LOP078
April 22, 2019

One truth I know about gay men is that many of us don't know how to be men. How can we live out our most authentic gay selves when we are faced with challenges like toxic masculinity, which attempts to regulate the feminine in all men?

Jeffry Iovannone: Deconstructing the Ideal Gay Male Body – LOP077
April 15, 2019

Living OUT Leadership Interview Series Jeff Iovannone is an activist-scholar, writer, educator, and researcher from Buffalo, New York who holds a Ph.D. in American Studies and specializes in gender and LGBTQ studies.

The Many Paths of Living OUT Leadership – LOP076
April 11, 2019

We Are Living in Troubled Times. Many of us feel compelled to do something, to affect change, but we might feel powerless, disconnected, or unsure how a single person could change the world for the better.

Were Religions Invented to Control the Ego’s Fear of the Other? LOP075
April 08, 2019

How is it possible for “a sincerely held religious belief” to be used as an acceptable form of discrimination? The answer is simple. There are far too many powerful egos in power pandering to far too many fearful egos who scream the loudest and als...

We Wait for Nothing or We Create Something – LOP074
April 04, 2019

There is no in-between. Life is ephemeral. Everything is temporary. We only have this moment now, so if you are not consciously doing something that serves you or makes you happy, how does waiting serve you?

A Message About Hope – LOP073
April 01, 2019

We can hope for change, we can hope for things to get better, we can hope for LGBTQ equality, but hope internalized is nothing but a silent wish kept in the closet. To be a change-maker – to be the change you want to see in the world – you need the he...

How Can You Use Your Difference to Make a Difference? LOP072
March 28, 2019

As a gay man, what does it mean to live OUT the best of who you are? For me, it's about recognizing if I've left any best parts of me in the closet, and which of those skills, desires, or talents I want to bring OUT to experience and enjoy. -