Think Queerly
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Queer Liberation vs Assimilation: On the Need for Creativity and Critical Thinking
I created Think Queerly to challenge the status quo and to elevate visibility. As a gay man and as a queer person, I do not want to be normalized. Instead, I want to be recognized and accepted for my difference as a humanizing quality. Think Queerly suppo
How Pete Buttigieg 'Covers' His Gay Identity
"Buttigieg is the first openly gay American to run for President. Only a few years ago, a gay Presidential hopeful was unthinkable. Yet, even in the midst of the backlash against LGBTQ equality created by the Trump administration, I feel underwhelmed by t
Why the World Needs Queer Creativity Now More Than Ever
One of the reasons that so many LGBT people are at the forefront of creativity is because we see things differently; we have seen the world through the lens of the oppressor. As soon as we begin to self-actualize and challenge societal norms through creat
Too Many Gender Identifying Pronouns: The Decision Fatigue Paradox
The nature and economy of language provide clues about which pronouns will endure in the Queer Community. Pronouns used to properly recognize gender and sexual identities are a political act that disrupts the status quo. However, what's been missing from
Gender Identity Discussion on Toronto Radio Show, Rainbow Country
Recently, I was a guest on the radio show, Rainbow Country on CIUT 89.5 FM. The creator and host, Mark Tara invited me back for a second show to talk about various aspects of gender identity along with my colleague, scholar and activist, Jeffry J. Iovanno
The Need for Control and Belonging: The Zeitgeist of Social Media
Blaming LGBTQ and People of Colour for the ills of the world demonstrates ignorance and a lack of critical thinking skills. Why do people think like this? What is the cause of this? I think the core issues that are bothering people are a lack of control,
LGBTQ Diversity Demonstrates that Dualities Are Artificial Constructs
If we continue to argue against each other from completely opposite ends of the spectrum, one person firmly on the left and the other on the right — one person on the right side of the equation, the other on the wrong side — we will be forever stuck, unab
The Secret that Lives in the Closet
How does internalized homophobia in gay men affect other LBTQ individuals? Gay men are taught that we are other, that we don't belong, that we can't cross the gender divide. To do so is a form of weakness. Straight-acting gay men struggle with self-accept
Queer Leadership Is Grounded in Self-Leadership
In today’s show, I explain the reason for changing the show’s name from the Living OUT Podcast to the Think Queerly Podcast. Then I continue with my on-going discussion/living document about the “Way of Queer Leadership”. I ask the core question,
The Problem of LGBTQ Division and Eating Our Own – LOP102
Have you ever seen this happen? Queers come together at a large event like Pride where everyone wants to have their voice heard, their opinions honoured and recognized as having value. Sometimes this leads to division or in-fighting within a specific grou