Dave LeFevre and Jeff Ehlers are both serving as members of their stake high councils and share the leadership principles they have learned in this calling.
Dave LeFevre
Dave LeFevre lives northeast of Seattle in Maltby, Washington, and works in e-learning for SAP Concur. Originally from San Diego, he lived in Utah for a time and attended Brigham Young University. Dave has been a presenter at BYU Education Week and is currently serving for the fourth time on the high council in his stake.
Highlights
06:00 His first calling to the high council was a learning experience
07:15 How his stake presidency uses their high council, counseling together as well as sending them out to the wards
09:20 Format and discussions as a high council and how they communicate and share information
11:25 How speaking assignments are handled, rotating through the wards
12:50 Leadership Principle: Speaking assignments are opportunities to engage with the ward leadership

* 13:30 Arrive early and greet the ward members
* 16:40 Connect with the bishopric by email in advance, checking in with what is happening in the ward
* 17:50 Look to the bishoprics for topics to talk about, getting specific for the ward

20:10 Leadership Principle: One of the most important responsibilities we have is to thank people

* 22:20 Being specific and detailed with gratitude creates connection

24:45 Leadership Principle: High councilors are more coaches than players, especially working with an assigned ward or organization

* Advising from knowledge of principles
* 26:25 Being a neutral, listening ear for the bishop
* 28:00 Being an expert on the handbook

29:50 Leadership Principle: Building a relationship of trust with others is especially important to be effective, which is mostly done by respecting their stewardship and keys

* You are the advisor and supporter, not there to tell others what to do

33:25 Training other high councilors: be flexible and finish your talk on time, watch for opportunities to serve and be a part of your assigned ward
36:30 Being a disciple is being a learner
Jeff Ehlers
Jeff Ehlers lives in Meridian, Idaho, but grew up in rural Shelley, Idaho, and served a mission to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. He earned bachelors and masters degrees in accounting from Brigham Young University, and a masters degree in business from the University of Utah. Jeff has started four companies and currently works full-time as CFO for a medical device company. He has served on his stake high council for a year.
Highlights
38:00 21 days of digital missionary work and using recently-returned missionaries
41:30 Transitioning into serving on the high council, his first stake calling, and being a step away from engaging with the general membership to working with the leaders
44:10 Being the rookie on the high council is an opportunity to learn

* Serving as an advisor for the young women, responsibility for stake social media, and opportunities to serve with the area Spanish-speaking branch

48:45 The Self-Reliance Initiative fits the concept of living your life in beta: recognizing yourself as an unfinished product but improving yourself by putting yourself out there
51:40 Advising the young women

* Respecting their position and right to revelation for their calling
* 52:50 Having their back/being the fifth presidency member
* 53:15 Lesson learned to do what the youth are doing and getting to know the people you are serving

55:35 Leadership Principle: Being a delegate or being a representative

* Sometimes a high councilor is representing the stake presidency as if they were there,