Guess what?  You are not special.  Sounds like a strange way to talk about success.  The fact is, everyone goes through the same process to achieve things.  No one is immune.  The sooner you learn it'

Winning. Succeeding. Achieving.  Isn't that what we are all striving for? What does winning really mean?  You can't just win once and be happy.  You also can't let a win, or a loss define who you are.