How do you show up? Does it change based on who you're with? Maybe it changes with the situation? They say IQ gets you in the room and EQ keeps you in the room. Have you thought about your GQ stat

Facts are facts. If you are going to achieve something, you'll have to join a "club" meaning, whatever group of people you are going to lead. There is a price to be paid for it. Also, there is a pr