when searching for how to find a mistress -- File this under things you DON'T do when contacting a mistress. You DONT make comments about 'mistress so and so does it' -- elite, experienced femdommes don't care about what others do and find it disrespectful. Time for another episode of Kink and Coffee with Mistress Lillith and Dr. Kiera as they touch on a controversial topic of Mistress/Femdom Comparisons.