This week on Interstates & Heartbreak, conflict resolution coach and Enneagram specialist Jenn Whitmer is here to provide an upgrade from your typical Buzzfeed personality quizzes. She guides us through the nuances of the nine Enneagram types at their ...

The first episode of the year features OKCupid success stories Megan Ladd and Will Rippetoe, returning for a joint episode! They share the anatomy of a good profile, what went into crafting their own OKCupid profiles,

This year I wrap up Interstates & Heartbreak the way many of us spent our quarantines - alone. For my first ever solo episode, I take time to reflect - not on the horror that was 2020, but on ghosts of New Year's resolutions past taken straight from my...

'Tis the season for an episode of Interstates & Heartbreak that delves into the challenges that arise when two faiths intersect, including the impact on holiday merriment and traditions. "Relationship Rabbi" Judy Greenfield of the Nachshon Minyan congr...

I interview Anna Goodman (aka Kevin from the Backstreet Butches, aka Dandy Frank) about growing up queer in Ohio and her eventual L-Word inspired move to LA. She shares how her now extensive network w

This week Interstates goes international with Sydney native Kylie Tran, as we discuss her dating experiences during the time she spent in Berlin. She explains how fuckboys vary by continent, and how the European men she encountered compared to the ster...

This week I interview author Julie Glynn about the voice in your head that tells you you're a "fugly slut" - your inner mean girl. We discuss how to combat her negativity, whether she's mentally cockblocking you from pursuing the relationship you deser...

This week I interview the co-hosts of Dope Sh*t My Therapist Says podcast, Lauren Fractor and Ryanne Gatti. This episode addresses the ways we let dating impact our mental health - like pressuring our

I interview Alina Tang about coming into your own while you're on your own, discussing the transition from serial monogamy to the dating apps. We reflect on the challenge of balancing your partner wit

This week, Jonathan Hernandez and I commiserate about the inherent biases built into the online dating process, discussing how external factors like perceptions about race or height preferences can serve to limit your options on the app.