Interstates & Heartbreak

Interstates & Heartbreak


Latest Episodes

70. All the Single-ish Ladies
October 17, 2021

This week Ryanne Gatti rejoins me to dissect the subject of many a group chat - the situationship. What is it? (A mess.) What are the red flags to watch out for? ("Looking for something casual" on Bum

69. “He’s Just a Friend”
October 10, 2021

This week, Nia Ruth shares how dating in NY impacted her opinions on marriage and finding the one, and how her now-husband eventually lifted her skepticism. We discuss why he initially friendzoned him

68. Hinge Cringe
October 03, 2021

I'm back for a solo episode to kick off Q4, and to advocate for why October undeniably marks the universal start of cuffing season. For those looking to get cuffed, I dive into why I think Hinge is th

67. When Three Become One
September 26, 2021

Erica Troyer shares unfiltered insights into the modern day swingers community and what REALLY happens in sex clubs -  like the etiquette around approaching another couple for sex, and why should you

66. Swipe Economy
September 19, 2021

Roland Toney, brother-in-law of former guest David Zeff, shares his perspective on dating apps as an elder millennial who's never used them. We analyze the dating app economics that favor fuckboy beha

65. Shoot Your Shot Girl Summer
September 12, 2021

Katelyn Zeff, sister to my friend and former guest David Zeff, chronicles her journey of dating in NY in search of a meaningful connection. We discuss how how to remain confident and positive in the f

64. Porn: The Good, the Bad, and the Fugly
September 05, 2021

Join me and Azaria Menezes for a discussion about porn that won't leave you wanting to immediately clear your search history. We discuss the evolution of our relationship with porn, from our first enc

63. For Better…and For Worse
August 29, 2021

David Zeff opens up about dating after divorce in arguably the most vulnerable Interstates & Heartbreak episode to-date. He outlines the journey of his last relationship- from first Tinder swipe, to "

62. The Carmen Sandiego of Dating
August 22, 2021

Mexico City local Mariana Villanueva shares international dating tales spanning her home country, Australia, Europe, Asia, and beyond. She unapologetically expresses her gripes with dating Mexican men

61. The Life Erotic with Monica Jayne (Pt. 2)
August 15, 2021

Erotic blueprint coach Monica Jayne returns to deep dive into owning your sexual experience and breaking free from societal expectations. We dive into how media depictions of sex impact expectations a