On this episode I speak with Farely about his experiences navigating the intersections of love, sex, and polyamory with ADHD.

Farely has done some ADHD advocacy in the past and he misses the days when he could talk about his disorder with the aim to help others. He takes this opportunity to discuss the intricacies of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, the diverse symptomology, and how it affects him personally. What is it like having to deal with scattered memory and forgetfulness? What’s it like being medicated? How to deal with being impulsive. Farley opens up about how ADHD affects sex drive and diverse sexual needs. For him, polyamory was a way to better meet those needs in an ethical way without recourse to cheating, guilt, and shame.

Book cited in this episode:
Tuckman, A. (2019). ADHD after dark: Better sex life, better relationship. Routledge.

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