On this episode I speak with Ashley, the curious puppy boy. She’s gender-bending your expectations while living her most authentic life navigating the sex positive communities with the love of her life.

Coming out is only the beginning of her story. Since high school, Ashley has pushed the envelope to allow herself the liberty to be who she wants to be. She was the first person in her high school to come out and took on an onslaught of homophobia, but paved the way for others to feel safe coming out as well. Since then, she’s dropped her femme look an adopted a more androgynous appearance, but maintains that there’s still a strong femme submissive inside that needs attention. Her current partner has provided the space for Ashely to explore new relationship dynamics in polyamory, new kinks, fetishes, and fantasies that subvert the restrictions of categorical sexuality. Overall, we discuss liberation and limitations within the gay community, with adopting certain identities, and with exploring one’s sexuality, kinks, and fetishes.

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