If You Really Knew Me

If You Really Knew Me


Episode 49 - Change is Hard with Pastor Larry Davis

April 18, 2025

In this insightful episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim and Ben welcome Pastor Larry Davis, an experienced leader in managing change within church communities. The episode delves into the complexities of change, likening it to a grieving process, and discusses how different personalities navigate change.


Pastor Larry introduces his book, "Grieving the Loss of the Church You Love," highlighting how understanding the emotional aspect of change can aid in smoother transitions. The conversation also explores the Enneagram types, offering personalized strategies for handling change effectively.


KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Change and Grief Connection: Change often triggers a sense of loss, similar to the stages of grief. Recognizing this can help individuals and communities navigate transitions more effectively.


2. Understanding the Why: Addressing the underlying reasons for resistance to change can transform perceptions and facilitate acceptance.


3. Enneagram Insights: Each personality type processes change differently. Understanding these differences can lead to more empathetic and effective leadership and support.


4. Leadership in Change: Effective leaders should practice active listening, validate emotions, and tailor their approach to suit individual needs and the collective goal.


5. Spiritual Perspective: Embracing change can lead to spiritual growth, as it mirrors the death, burial, and resurrection process inherent in Christian faith.


RESOURCES


Engage with these resources to deepen your understanding of managing change both personally and within your community.


Pastor Larry Davis's book "Grieving the Loss of the Church You Love"

Visit PastorLarryDavis.com for further insights and resources



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If you’re not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram Explained


Info credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)


Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells

Ben is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCord


Helpful Links:

Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type Assessment

Learn about all 9 types: 9 Types Overview

In-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses

 

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