If You Really Knew Me

If You Really Knew Me


Latest Episodes

Episode 55 - Jordan Feliz
June 20, 2025

Jordan candidly discusses the challenges and strengths of being an Enneagram Type 9 with a Wing 1...

Episode 54 - Honey, Let's Talk It Out
June 13, 2025

We are ALL in some type of relationship whether it be married, engaged, dating or friendship. Since communication is key in relationships, this episode looks at each personality type’s communication style.

Episode 53 - Meet the Band Caleb & John
May 16, 2025

Ben and Kim sit down with The Bridge artists Caleb and John to learn how the Enneagram is a tool they utilize in their lives, all while keeping their focus on Jesus.

Episode 52 - Being the Best You (Part 2)
May 09, 2025

For each type, we'll look at our view, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it, and what we can become in Christ.

Episode 51 - Being the Best You (Part 1)
May 02, 2025

We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset, our unhealthy version, and our healthy selves in each type can look like.

Episode 50 - Forgiveness is a Choice
April 25, 2025

Has someone ever wronged you, and you can’t seem to get past it? Maybe you struggle with even wanting to forgive the person.

Episode 49 - Change is Hard with Pastor Larry Davis
April 18, 2025

Pastor Larry introduces his book, "Grieving the Loss of the Church You Love," highlighting how understanding the emotional aspect of change can aid in smoother transitions.

Episode 48 - Good Grief? - Part 2
March 28, 2025

Using the Enneagram to grieve, with Special Guest Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPC.

Episode 47 - Good Grief? - Part 1
March 21, 2025

Using the Enneagram to grieve, with Special Guest Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPC.

Episode 46 - Fear and Anxiety
February 21, 2025

Has anxiety and fear ever gripped you so tight that you didn’t know how to respond to it? Sometimes, as believers, we can feel shame over the inability to handle anxiety and fear.