The Seed: Growing Your Business
Ep 119 – Staying in the Game
We love to romanticize growth.
Big launches.
Fast scaling.
Viral moments.
Explosive revenue months.
But here’s the truth most people don’t talk about:
Long-term business is a lot quieter than that.
It looks like:
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Plateaus that last longer than you expected
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Revenue that stabilizes instead of skyrockets
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Work that feels repetitive, even boring, some days
And boredom doesn’t mean broken.
It means you’re building something real.
Whether you’re a service provider, product-based business, nonprofit leader, solopreneur, founder, or executive director — the businesses that last aren’t built on hype. They’re built on endurance.
Most Businesses Don’t Fail — People QuitThis is uncomfortable, but it matters.
I’ve watched respected brands shut down:
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Email lists that once fueled growth
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Courses that used to sell out
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Communities that once thrived
Not because they failed — but because the market shifted.
What worked five years ago doesn’t always work now.
Sometimes what worked last year is already being phased out.
And instead of adapting, many people:
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Get discouraged
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Take change personally instead of strategically
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Decide the rules change too much
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Burn out and walk away
Staying in the game requires paying attention — not panicking.
Staying in Your Lane Doesn’t Mean Ignoring TrafficI’m a “head down, do the work” kind of person.
But staying in your lane does not mean ignoring what’s happening around you.
AI has changed the landscape.
The internet democratized education.
Technology has removed humans from parts of the process — and pretending that hasn’t happened isn’t noble. It’s dangerous.
You don’t have to adopt every trend.
You don’t have to chase every shiny object.
But if there isn’t a mirror available, you add one.
Long-term builders look honestly at:
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What’s shifting
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What’s becoming obsolete
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What’s being asked for — adjacent, not opposite
That’s not selling out.
That’s staying relevant.
Long-term business does require reinvention — but not constant pivots that leave you unrecognizable.
The real questions are:
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Is this still serving my people?
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Is this aligned with how I want to work?
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Is the market asking for something adjacent, not opposite?
Reinvention should feel like refinement — not a personality crisis.
You Are Not Your Worst MonthThis is where most people get tripped up.
They attach their identity to:
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Revenue
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Engagement numbers
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Enrollment totals
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Applause
And when those numbers dip, their sense of self goes with it.
But your business is shaping you just as much as you are shaping it.
Who you become by staying matters more than any single result.
Long-term builders learn how to:
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Separate self-worth from sales
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Detach meaning from metrics
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Stay curious instead of defensive
If your business only works when everything is going well, it’s not resilient — and resilience is what keeps you in the game.
You are not:
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Your quietest launch
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Your worst month
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Your engagement dip
You are the person who shows up anyway.
That’s endurance.
You Cannot Do This Alone (Not Long-Term)Solo grind is romanticized — but it’s not sustainable.
Community doesn’t mean noise.
It doesn’t mean comparison.
It doesn’t mean constant promotion.
It means perspective.
People who can say:
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“I’m seeing this too.”
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“You’re not crazy.”
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“Here’s what I’m noticing — let’s talk it through.”
When markets shift, isolation is what makes people quit.
Community is what normalizes change instead of turning it into fear.
And no — community is not just a place to promote.
It’s a place to stay human while building something meaningful.
Staying in the game doesn’t mean staying rigid.
It means staying connected.
If you’re tired but not done — this is for you.
If you’ve questioned whether it’s worth it — this is for you.
If you’ve noticed the shifts and wondered if you’re behind — you’re not.
You’re paying attention.
And that’s how people stay.
The real win isn’t:
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Being everywhere
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Being first
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Dominating the market
The real win is staying long enough to:
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Adapt
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Mature
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Build something that actually lasts
Progress isn’t about perfection.
It’s about showing up — messy and brave — one seed at a time.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong.
It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors:
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Energy
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Priorities
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Real life
That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory.
And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership.
Because staying in the game?
That’s the work — and it’s enough.





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