Health Hats, the Podcast
Pillow, pills, poop, piss, and pain
Blood, sweat, tears shared by two.
Helping one end and another begin.
A disaster that ultimately gives back.
Hearts clubbed by diamonds in spades.
We learned, we cried, we continued.
Episode Summary
Denise Brown of caregiving.com asked caregivers for their 6-word story about caregiving. Brilliant!
Welcome to Men Caregivers, Part 2, the Panel. Part 1 was interviews with the panel, Ben Carter, Patrick Egan, Jolyon Hallows, and yours truly. All at the National Caregiving Conference in Chicago in November 2018.
Here are some of our 6-word stories:
We did it because we could
Pillows, pills, poop, piss, and pain
20 years a caregiver. I adapted.
Key word isn't 'men', it's 'caregiving'
Personal care? It depends? Mother, wife?
Managing the Dis Ease of Disease
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Contents
Full Transcript
Pillow, pills, poop, piss, and pain
Episode Intro
00:46 Podcast Intro
Introductions
02:09 We did it because we could
Jolyon Hallows
Ben Carter
04:21 90-day caregiving experience with Mommy
Health Hats
06:46 Pillows, pills, poop, piss, and pain
Patrick Egan
10:47 Caregiving stronger with a diverse community
Jolyon Hallows
13:48 20-years a caregiver. I adapted.
Patrick Egan
16:40 Statistics about Men Caregivers: The numbers
Ben Carter
18:47 Welcome the new VP of Caregiving
Health Hats
22:05 My advice: Take care of yourselves
Patrick Egan
Attendee
24:09 Male panel? Or highlight other diversities?
Patrick Egan
25:08 Key word isn’t ‘men’, it’s ‘caregiving’
Jolyon Hallows
27:10 Not so many men here. Why?
Ben Carter
28:29 We didn't know we were caregivers
30:27 We learned, we cried, we continued
Attendee
33:41 Personal care? It depends? Mother, wife?
Ben Carter
35:06 Managing the Dis Ease of disease
36:30 Mindfulness. Be in the moment. Deeper.
Jolyon Hallows
40:06 Problem solver can’t solve them all
Patrick Egan
Attendee
41:40 Backlash against men in nurturing roles
Health Hats
Patrick Egan
44:18 Competing? Caregiver conference run by men
Attendee
45:13 Brothers not caring for mom’s hygiene
Jolyon Hallows
46:46 Difference between wife and mom as caree
Health Hats
47:41 Different abilities. Different willingness. Gender-related?
Ben Carter
48:35 What grandmother wouldn’t let me see
50:30 Mommy don’t die. Can’t face it.
Wrap up
51:44 Healing, therapeutic session. Wrap it up
Podcast Outro
52:26