In her hypnosis practice, Suzanne Kellner-Zinck has come to realize that abuse happens in a variety of ways, many of which are subtle and often fly under the radar. The jeolousy and controlling behaviors many women associate with love, are often signs of abuse. Recognizing and acting on these subtle cues can be the difference between staying in an abusive and unsatisfactory relationship and having the courage and fortitude to demand and receive more.