I Love Spankings

I recently had a call with “over the knee spanking guy”. He is a spanking aficionado, and spanking is his main fetish, and it is incredibly powerful for him. In fact he was changed by spankings!  That call got me to wonder; is spanking for naughty men therapy, discipline, or simply a fetish? I welcome your comments on this blog to hear your answers.

Want me to warm your ass?

Discipline spankings are generally tougher, and in the kink world, are not meant to be sensual or fun in any way. Pain is more severe, the Mistress administering the spanking is often cold or giving a lecture. This type of spanking is meant to correct behavior. It is not appropriate for a man with a spanking fetish because he would generally like it, and it would not correct behavior!

The handle fits right in my…hand!

I think therapy spankings, a helpful type of spanking common in the kink world, are used as a release to other worries and pains. In a way one pain, the pain from spanking replaces another pain, and allows the spankee to work through those feelings. The feelings of vulnerability can be used and the sting of spanking is perfect to help reset a negative day, especially with the release of endorphins one gets with a good spanking!

In the D/s world, most spankings are fetish spankings. A man wants to have his naughty bottom paddled and seeks out a Mistress to carry out this task. There is generally a negotiation about the spanking, and a power exchange occurs. The man gives his trust to the Mistress, and there are safe words. Often a fetish spanking can be a sexy role play.

Which spankings have you experienced? Which type is your favorite?

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