Submissive Positive: Submissives Need Encouragement Too One of the negative things I see in the BDSM and fetish scene is how submissives, slaves, pets, bottoms – whatever label you want to use – seem to have this belief that they’re supposed to be treated badly, or told constantly how pathetic and worthless they are.  Let . . . → Read More: Submissive Positive Monday, Part 1