Denial or Orgasm: The Bittersweet choice
When you have been chaste, denied, or in chastity for many months, or even a year, knowing you are allowed to finally have that orgasm, that release can bring up a mix of emotions. For some who have been in chastity or simply denied, it may be even difficult to accept that an orgasm will happen.

Here Are Some Bittersweet Reasons
1.      Denial is too good. If you have been on an edging program with a sexy cocktease, the pleasure of being on the edge for hours without cumming has likely taught you that an orgasm is quick and done, but you can extend so much pleasure just by stroking and edging without cumming.

2.      Orgasms change the chemicals in the brain. Maybe you have learned to truly enjoy the mix of pleasure and ache. Denial can really make you feel alive and sexy! An orgasm is great, but you know it would take a while to get back to the delicious feelings of denied aching. You may very well need a more extreme cocktease program to get you back to where you started.

3.      Fear of dynamic changing. We all know that after an orgasm, brain chemicals change. You may feel less submissive for a while, and that may be an uncomfortable space for you to be in. While you love the pleasure of an

orgasm, it might not be worth the next few day’s headspace.
To Orgasm or Not
Those and many other reasons may be why you ask Mistress to tease and deny you for just a little bit more; to not let you cum so you can continue to feel submissive and in that wonderful space of denial and edging.

Have you ever faced this choice? Always Beg for Mistress Delia, and tell me about how you were able to choose.