In this episode, Megan Thorp, MA and Certified Connected Families Parent Coach, joins us to explore why listening is the jet fuel in our relationships with our kids. We examine how effective listening can bridge the disconnect between us and our kids and foster emotional intelligence. We also talk about the importance of being present, understanding underlying beliefs, and the spiritual aspect of listening as a reflection of God’s character. And finally, we share practical tips for improving your listening skills and the hope that it’s never too late to grow in this essential skill.

Key Takeaways:

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• Listening communicates to kids that they are valued, liked, and that you care about what’s happening inside them
  
  
• Active listening builds relational influence that becomes crucial during challenging moments
  
  
• Active listening grows your child’s confidence by showing them they are “called and capable”
  
  
• God models perfect listening for us – He is fully present, understands our circumstances, and feels what we feel.
  

Mentioned in this podcast:

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• New! Slow, Low, Listen 4-Day Mini Course–only $9! Register here!
  
  
• Attachment Webinar with Dr. Nicole Wilke – May 14th–Register here!
  
  
• James 1:19-20
  
  
• John 11:41
  
  
• Ep. 167 | Kids’ Arguments: Establish Peace with 4 Steps
  
  
• Connected Families Certified Parent Coach Program
  

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Guest Bio:

As a parent coach, Megan’s desire is to come alongside parents and help them gain confidence and equip them to lead their families. She will help you create an environment in your home where everyone feels valued and connected, and skills for you to build a relationship with your kids that will last long after they leave your home. She strongly believes that you are the expert on your child, and I would love to walk with you as you bring more peace and joy into your home.

Megan has a Master’s in Counseling Psychology from Bethel University and is a Certified Parent Coach and Parent Coach Trainer through Connected Families. She loves to spend time with her husband and 3 kids. Connect with Megan at: megan@connectedfamilies.org or here.

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