Grow Great - A City Government Leadership Podcast

Grow Great - A City Government Leadership Podcast


Make It So Easy You Can’t Avoid Doing It – Season 2020, Episode 9

February 25, 2020

As much as I love the anonymous quote — “Everything is hard until it’s easy” — there’s a powerful way to move forward toward an accomplishment.
Make it so easy you can’t avoid doing it.
There’s lots of ancient wisdom about tackling a task by breaking it down into smaller tasks. Hence the idea expressed as a question.
Do you know how you eat an elephant?
One bite at a time. 
As simple as it sounds, I started wondering why we don’t do this as well as we could. You’d think such a tactic would prevent feeling overwhelmed. Then why are so many people overwhelmed as they march toward some goal?
There are likely many reasons. Having a cluttered mind. Over-thinking.
Then, there’s not thinking it through enough to break it down into smaller achievements.
It’s easy for us to do one or the other. Or both.
Fixating On The Big Goal, Is That The Way To Go?
People love talking about Big Hairy Audacious Goals (BHAGs). We’re shamed if we don’t have one. Or a bunch of them.
People want to do something great. Something BIG.
Question: What was the last BIG thing you accomplished?
I would hope that daily you’re able to accomplish some meaningful things. But it’s very likely none of those things fit the bill for being something really BIG.
Except for heroic acts during a crisis, most BIG things aren’t accomplished in a short period of time. Even feats of championship athletics contain thousands of hours or days before the accomplishment. In business (or school or a career) the big accomplishments of our time mostly don’t have some moment that defines the outcome. That is, rarely are we able to point to a specific moment and point to it as THE MOMENT when we accomplished our big, hairy audacious goal. More likely we crept toward it a little bit at a time, even if we didn’t plan it that way. It’s just how things go.
Taking More Time Than Necessary Because We Get In Our Own Way
Pogo was right. We have met the enemy and he is us.
Martin looks back now and realizes it took him years longer than necessary. With the history behind him, he’s able to see things more clearly.
“I could have easily shaved off half the time it took. Probably a lot more. All because I found it daunting. And I hated every minute of it.”
Martin was trying desperately to get a new enterprise off the ground. It was a period of career transition, but it wasn’t like he was going from one area to a completely different area. If you were to examine his resume you’d think, “Yeah, this makes complete sense. No problem.” But it was a problem. A big problem. Martin struggled to get traction. Not because he lacked expertise. Not because he wasn’t smart enough. Not because he wasn’t hard-working. Truth is, Martin didn’t have any really good excuses. In his mind, they were REASONS. Not excuses!
“Every day I woke up dreading the work. I hated every minute of it. No wonder I didn’t succeed,” says Martin.
At some point, Martin got so sick and tired of being sick and tired that he decided to take a close look in the mirror. “I had to figure out why I was struggling,” Martin said.
Martin had heard me – and others – talk about being who you really are. Martin said, “I heard you say, “If you’re not a fish, stop trying to climb trees.” That’s not original.
“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” That quote isn’t really a quote from anybody even though it’s attributed to Albert Einstein, who never did say or write it. You can go back to the 1800s and find references of animals born with specific skills,