Can you get into the swingers scene as a single male?  Many have tried and failed (some more spectacularly than others) but we talk do Daniel, who not only lived to tell the tale, he also wrote a book about it called “swingland”.

We discuss:

* How to be yourself
* Creepy things to avoid
* Not sending pictures of your junk (unless asked for)
* Making yourself useful at parties in order to get yourself to be indispensable
* Playing “Poker for pussy"
* Swinging as single male versus a female
* Experienced couples versus newbies
* Being aware of couples with internal issues
* Dangers of recently broken-up single females
* Sense of humor
* Swinger-based TV series are mediocre at best, so we have to make our own

References:

* Read "Swingland: Between the Sheets of the Secretive, Sometimes Messy, but Always Adventurous Swinging Lifestyle"
* David Stern: website, twitter
* Featured podcast: Polyamory Weekly
* Stockroom: coolest toys for the bedroom and the dungeon
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