Jim's Take

Jim's Take


Never Enough: The Pressures of Our Environments (Ep. 159)

November 10, 2025


Title: Never Enough: The Pressures of Our Environment and the Path Back to Self-Worth | Jim Frawley


Description:

In Jim’s Take Episode 159, executive coach Jim Frawley examines why “enough” never seems to be enough anymore. Today’s social, digital, and economic environments constantly shift expectations—pushing achievement over meaning and visibility over value. Jim offers a direct, practical reframe: trade projection for contribution, performance anxiety for self-assurance, and empathy overload for actionable compassion.


Listeners will learn:

  • Why external scorekeeping (titles, metrics, followers) breeds conditional worth
  • How to disentangle identity from other people’s moving goalposts
  • The difference between confidence and self-assurance, self-importance and self-worth
  • Why empathy is often misapplied at work - and how compassion prevents burnout
  • A better target than “purpose”: usefulness you can feel and measure
  • Two exercises:
  • Identity Columns: What defines you? In the next column, write who told you that.
  • Participation is greater than Performance: Replace projection with tangible contribution each week.
  • How to reduce duplicity, align inner values with outer behavior, and build calm



Why listen: 

If you’re a leader or operator in New York / NYC or any fast-moving market, this episode gives you a repeatable approach to rebuild worth from the inside out—without abandoning ambition.


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