American men are never happy with what they have. They’re always looking around the corner to upgrade. They look for defects where none exist. With a fifty percent divorce rate for people under thirty, it’s time to accept that free will and choice hav

Guess what – she’s slept with other people. You know this. They were with her before you. And it means nothing. When you ask her or investigate her sexual past, you only reveal your own insecurities. You’re not in competition with old bo

American men love to live in drama. They bring it on themselves. But when it comes to problem solving, they forget one fundamental thing – the task at hand. Whether it’s yourself, your relationship or your family, when problems big and small a

When a man lies, a woman thinks it’s the truth. When he tells the truth, she thinks it’s a lie. Men can’t win most of the time. But when it comes to her unfounded jealousy, he can. A woman can be jealous if she has probable cause. But if

One of the most pivotal rites of passage in a relationship is introducing your girlfriend to your mother. The pressure is on her – and you. There are many pitfalls and landmines along the way. Will they compete for the top position? Are you the numb

When it comes to relationships, the game never ends. In childhood, we leverage the game to get what we want. In adolescence into our twenties, we mistake passion for the architecture behind everything we do. In marriage, the game changes from pursuit and

Can you handle sex? Can you handle women? From the time we’re teenagers, through our twenties and up until we’re married, we think we’re ‘the man.’ In our teens, we’ll stick it anywhere, put it anywhere, put anything on

You’re a divorced father. The marriage or relationship didn’t work out. But you both had children. And there’s a particular kind of divorced father that’s still trying to work his ‘mojo,’ that he’s still ‘go

Three things are certain in life: death, taxes and a woman trying to change you. Her attempts aren’t something you can change. What is within your control, however, is the degree to which you allow your wife or girlfriend to change you. There are ex

Everybody wants to upgrade. You’re tired of second-rate, and settling for second-best. You want to meet better women. You won’t achieve this, however, by going to better bars or more upscale nightclubs. The only way to meet better women is by